Who Holds the Cards Now?: 5 Lethal Steps to Win His Heart and Get Him to Commit

This talks a lot about having an affair or even mentioning that you might to your partner. I got half way through and heard that thinking it had to be wrong. There's no way they are promoting having an affair or even considering it as a way to get your partner more interested in you. But, YES they are! He says, the idea of another mans (privates) being inside you drives your partner crazy and will make him want you even more, whether because of jealousy or him realizing he doesn't want that to happen.Unbelievable. DO NOT take their advice.

When people learn that I am a therapist they assume I hold the golden key to relationships. The truth is that because I'm a woman first, I often don't see my own forest from the trees. Like most of us, I'm aware and capable of using the tools that Greg presents. The difficulty is in consistent application. Greg's books are quick and easy to read, which means I will read them over and over again. The more I internalize the suggestions, the more they will become natural and automatic thoughts and behaviors. For the first time in maybe my adult life I feel I will become as successful in relationships as I am in the other areas of my life.

I absolutely love this book! It was very helpful, short and to the point. I would recommend this book to my nieces and nephews. I actually enjoyed reading and learning things that I did not know before. This was an awesome book to read and learn from. Especially when we all make these mistakes in the beginning of our relationships, no matter what age we are, we tend to keep making the same mistakes. My girlfriend kept telling me that “we have to pay the games men play”, but I never understand and was always frustrated as to how, but she never could explain. Now I got it, it’s a bit late but at least I got it now. I have to thank the author Gregg Michaelsen for opening my eyes in his book.

This book offers several things:1. By going outside of your comfort zone and thinking outside of the box (pretty much forcing ourselves to go against our natural instincts, it makes us (as women) build confidence, build a better social circle (rather than giving it up!) and discover new interests/talents.2. It gives us clarity to evaluate our true feelings in the partner we have. Perhaps they aren't who we thought they were, aren't exciting enough for *US*, aren't meeting our needs or will never step up. Who has time to waste!?!3. It teaches us not to lose ourselves...which we ALL do to some extent. The longer we allow it to go on, the longer and harder it is to find ourselves again.4. Develop enrichment in all aspects of ourselves and partners.Just read it...

With great hesitation I decided to purchase the book, but I am glad that I did. This has been an excellent book I have read lately. The information is valuable and straightforward. The book is to the point and written in simple easy to understand language. The best thing about this book is the fact it’s a man solution to men. Who could know a man better than another man? This book will give you answers to the question we all have like what is goes on inside a man's mind and how attraction works for him. It talks about how men and women think so differently about dating and will teach you how to avoid the mistakes most women make with men. I learnt how to communicate with my man and this has helped creating a loving and affectionate relationship for me. I was able to better understand men who are not emotional and how to know if your man is one and if so how to deal with them. The biggest thing I was shocked to learn was things we women do unknowingly that annoy men and hinder intimacy.This book gives and amazing insight into what really attracts men and what really pushes them away.This book has really been life changing for me! I am glad I invested in this book because it has helped me save my relationship which was falling apart. This book made me understand what was making my man drift away from me and also showed me how to win his affection back. Thank you!

This is excellent! The narration is interesting, easy to follow, fun, full of inflection and makes learning these male secrets simple!The advice here is valuable and makes a lot of sense. Gregg Michaelsen knows great secrets.

This stuff is definitely not intuitive to women, and it is totally refreshing to be given the keys to a man’s brain. Good stuff.

Another great book from GreggIt explains the mechanism and the tools to fix this man's phase (going Roug) that some guys are going through...because we actually let them not because they are mean to us.Gregg explains why men the way they are and the best way to understand each other.Thank you, Gregg, and I wishing you all the best and waiting for more books from you!

I've read this book a few times now over the past months (it's quite short!) and wish somebody had told me these things years ago. To those women who say that they don't want to play games, that's fine, go ahead, but men will continue to behave in this way unconsciously - and in any case, Gregg is telling us all to get a life, rather than making the man in our lives our hobby - sound advice I think. It's been really helpful and I know now where I've been going wrong. Thank you Gregg!

Tells the truth that some people need to hear but honestly doesn't go much further than that. Is a good overview and is more like a booklet than a book. Does not include any real science. There are much much better options by TED speakers, psychologists and social scientists if you are interested in this subject (like me).

I love the real part of this process, its get us ladies sort3d with our esteem and value, im way to kind and team player, so its nice to work on me , then learning men

Absolutely amazing! I've read most of the books from this author. All are very good, eye-opening, go to the core of the reality how to understand and relate to man, full of uhuhs and actually work! Would recommend every single woman to read not just this one but the other ones too.

Coming out of a17 year marriage and straight into a 5 year relationship and both failed for the same reasons. I changed myself to much.... this book has given me great insight thank you Greg.