--- product_id: 4350263 title: "Why Him? Why Her?: Finding Real Love By Understanding Your Personality Type Hardcover – January 20, 2009" brand: "helen fisher" price: "€ 39.00" currency: EUR in_stock: true reviews_count: 9 url: https://www.desertcart.be/products/4350263-why-him-why-her-finding-real-love-by-understanding-your store_origin: BE region: Belgium --- # Why Him? Why Her?: Finding Real Love By Understanding Your Personality Type Hardcover – January 20, 2009 **Brand:** helen fisher **Price:** € 39.00 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** Why Him? Why Her?: Finding Real Love By Understanding Your Personality Type Hardcover – January 20, 2009 by helen fisher - **How much does it cost?** € 39.00 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.be](https://www.desertcart.be/products/4350263-why-him-why-her-finding-real-love-by-understanding-your) ## Best For - helen fisher enthusiasts ## Why This Product - Trusted helen fisher brand quality - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description Full description not available ## Images ![Why Him? Why Her?: Finding Real Love By Understanding Your Personality Type Hardcover – January 20, 2009 - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/51KsRl9ugcL.jpg) ![Why Him? Why Her?: Finding Real Love By Understanding Your Personality Type Hardcover – January 20, 2009 - Image 2](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/41E6CIGPqjL.jpg) ![Why Him? Why Her?: Finding Real Love By Understanding Your Personality Type Hardcover – January 20, 2009 - Image 3](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/31LFVBtCxZL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ I recommend it all the time *by C***O on Reviewed in the United States on January 25, 2023* Great book for singles or couples if you like knowing more about yourself and who you're compatible with. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ From a happily married 54 year old man...So why did I buy this book? *by C***G on Reviewed in the United States on February 26, 2009* I decided to buy the book after seeing Helen Fisher on the Colbert Report. She handled herself well, and gave several intelligent teases to create desire for the book.I'm married, very happily, and thought the book would have some transferable ideas to marketing (my vocation).Other reviews cover the material in the book.Let me say first that the backbone of her research has been done before. There are 4 personality types. They have been called many things by different authors. The reason I don't mind that is that the author acknowledges the fact, and provides the source material. She then ties the personality types with brain chemistry, and does it convincingly. I haven't seen that before.Sure, she mentions her work with two online dating services. But it's part of the story, and to omit that would cheat the reader. Any author worth their salt would mention the work they have done in the past. In fact, her work for these companies is the basis of much of her research.She includes quotations from philosophers, businesspeople, even Einstein.These quotations add to the reading by showing what type(personality type, that is) of person thinks in what way.She includes personal stories that, if they were missing, would make this a harder read.Some of what she says has been covered before...but there isn't a book written that covers JUST new material. The way I see it, for $20 you got a few hours of intelligent introspection into what makes you the way you are...how others perceive you...and what others will be attracted (and repelled) in you. Certainly worth the price.By the way, I'm 100% Director, married to a near 100% Negotiator. According to the book, we're a perfect match. And we are.added 3/04/09 I noticed that most of the bad reviews are for the CD. I read the book. It must be a different experience. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Very helpful in understanding myself and how I relate to others *by N***R on Reviewed in the United States on May 28, 2015* Excellent book! I'm about half-way through the book and it has helped me become more clearly aware of my personality traits. This is helpful in general but the context of the book is how our personalities interact with the personalities of those we meet, date and have relationships with.However, do not assume that another person with theoretically ideal scores on the test will automatically be your ideal partner. There are 15 questions on the test for each of the four personality categories. 60 questions will only result in a general idea of who a person is. There is much more to our personalities that is not revealed. A lady friend and I have what appear to be ideal scores but we'd never get along in a relationship because of some specific personality traits. So don't blindly read the book thinking that you will easily find the perfect match. But it should be very helpful.Even though I scored highly as an "Explorer", not everything that the author writes in describing Explorers is true of me. So, as I'm reading, I underline what I feel is true of me. A potential partner could skim through my copy of the book and get a good idea of who I am.Keep something else in mind. Although the author emphasizes a person's two highest scores, that doesn't mean that the lower two categories do not apply at all to a person. Otherwise some additional personality traits could be overlooked and they could be important aspects of a person's personality. --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.be/products/4350263-why-him-why-her-finding-real-love-by-understanding-your](https://www.desertcart.be/products/4350263-why-him-why-her-finding-real-love-by-understanding-your) --- *Product available on Desertcart Belgium* *Store origin: BE* *Last updated: 2026-04-23*