--- product_id: 393604154 title: "Single On Purpose: Prioritizing Self-Love and Personal Growth in Your Journey Through Life, Dating, and Relationships" price: "€ 20.76" currency: EUR in_stock: true reviews_count: 13 url: https://www.desertcart.be/products/393604154-single-on-purpose-prioritizing-self-love-and-personal-growth-in store_origin: BE region: Belgium --- # Single On Purpose: Prioritizing Self-Love and Personal Growth in Your Journey Through Life, Dating, and Relationships **Price:** € 20.76 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** Single On Purpose: Prioritizing Self-Love and Personal Growth in Your Journey Through Life, Dating, and Relationships - **How much does it cost?** € 20.76 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.be](https://www.desertcart.be/products/393604154-single-on-purpose-prioritizing-self-love-and-personal-growth-in) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description The bestselling guide to prioritizing your relationship with yourself and living a more meaningful life, whether you’re alone, dating, or with a partner. There’s more to life than loving someone, right? But being single can feel like a death sentence. Why does being alone = being lonely? And why do we stop working on ourselves when we’re in a relationship? After a painful divorce, bestselling author and “The Angry Therapist” John Kim realized he had never truly been on his own. He went on a journey to rebuild his relationship with himself, going from alone and disconnected to alone and fulfilled. Kim has gone on to help thousands of clients find their own unique way to break free of expectations and finally live their truth. With Single on Purpose , you will discover: How to navigate loneliness Common challenges and mistakes people encounter in relationships Ways to grow your most important relationship, aka the one you have with yourself and so much more. Spending time to cultivate your relationship with yourself shouldn’t be something you only do when you hit rock bottom, go through a major loss, or have a quarter-life crisis. All of us, at some point, need to be single—on purpose. Review: Provides a simple, much-needed perspective and road map on being unexpectedly "single" again - I never expected to be divorced at age 70, after 32 years of marriage and 36 years being with my, now, "Ex." Many of us, men or women, have no clue how much we define ourselves by our roles: Husband, Father, Wife, Grandmother, etc. I suffered the common loss of friends who "sided" with my "Ex" because she very strategically got rid of ALL of MY friends just before we got married. I had given up listening to her whining: "They don't like me", etc. So, we made friends together, but most were from my Ex-wife's life before me. We were friends for 36 years, and yet, those old, longer friendships dominated in their perceived need to "pick" who they were going to be friends with. Somehow divorce always means a loss of friendships. So, everything I defined "ME" by was stripped away: I was no longer a "husband" and no longer a "friend" to so many people that were in my life for 36 years. This all happened when both of my kids moved out and got married and engaged...their lives are moving on as well, so my role as the "Father" that I always was, is now over as well. This book helps you realize that you need to accept these changes and to redefine yourselves as being "comfortable" with your new identity as a "single person." You get move on into other meaningful relationships in your life, if you are still trying to hold onto roles and the feelings those roles defined you by, when they no longer exist. The "old you" is gone forever, and you must accept it, and decide what you are going to do in accepting it and newly-defining who you are as a single person in your new world. This all has to happen before you can successfully start and keep meaningful new, long-term relationships. So...I am now learning to be a "new me"...still a father, but in a different way, and I am trying to figure out where a 70 year man can meet similar people. At 70, you are retired, so no new work friendships. You don't go to bars/clubs etc. And as an aged person, you discover how much your age group is ignored. I even attend a large church that has dedicated, co-ed services and activities for teenagers, singles and couples aged 20-40, but absolutely nothing for people over 40. We are ignored. So, I have to discover new places to meet people as the "new me" so I can further develop me as a friend to them. That, again, all begins by me getting maximally comfortable with being "new single me." This book helps you understand that and how to move forward. There is a second book: a 31-day "program" of something to do on a daily basis, to help you get there. I recommend this book. You do have to be comfortable with profanity though...for some dumb reason, this author - a therapist - felt it necessary and in his comfort zone, to string all of the various profanities that we know, in the written text of the book. I found myself asking: "why did he write that...why was that edited out?" Oh well. Review: Raw, Relatable, and Surprisingly Comforting - This book felt like a conversation with someone who truly understands self-growth and independence. John Kim writes with honesty there’s no sugarcoating, just real talk about learning to love yourself, rediscover your identity, and enjoy being alone. I appreciated how it mixed humor with depth, making heavy topics feel approachable. Some sections hit me harder than expected, especially about self-worth and rebuilding confidence. It’s not just for people going through breakups it’s for anyone learning how to be okay on their own and build a life that feels whole. ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | Best Sellers Rank | #8,561 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #12 in Psychology & Counseling Books on Sexuality #12 in Dating (Books) #22 in Popular Psychology Counseling | | Customer Reviews | 4.7 out of 5 stars 3,074 Reviews | ## Images ![Single On Purpose: Prioritizing Self-Love and Personal Growth in Your Journey Through Life, Dating, and Relationships - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71eMj7l4iBL.jpg) ## Available Options This product comes in different **Media Language, Media Format** options. ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Provides a simple, much-needed perspective and road map on being unexpectedly "single" again *by R***. on June 13, 2026* I never expected to be divorced at age 70, after 32 years of marriage and 36 years being with my, now, "Ex." Many of us, men or women, have no clue how much we define ourselves by our roles: Husband, Father, Wife, Grandmother, etc. I suffered the common loss of friends who "sided" with my "Ex" because she very strategically got rid of ALL of MY friends just before we got married. I had given up listening to her whining: "They don't like me", etc. So, we made friends together, but most were from my Ex-wife's life before me. We were friends for 36 years, and yet, those old, longer friendships dominated in their perceived need to "pick" who they were going to be friends with. Somehow divorce always means a loss of friendships. So, everything I defined "ME" by was stripped away: I was no longer a "husband" and no longer a "friend" to so many people that were in my life for 36 years. This all happened when both of my kids moved out and got married and engaged...their lives are moving on as well, so my role as the "Father" that I always was, is now over as well. This book helps you realize that you need to accept these changes and to redefine yourselves as being "comfortable" with your new identity as a "single person." You get move on into other meaningful relationships in your life, if you are still trying to hold onto roles and the feelings those roles defined you by, when they no longer exist. The "old you" is gone forever, and you must accept it, and decide what you are going to do in accepting it and newly-defining who you are as a single person in your new world. This all has to happen before you can successfully start and keep meaningful new, long-term relationships. So...I am now learning to be a "new me"...still a father, but in a different way, and I am trying to figure out where a 70 year man can meet similar people. At 70, you are retired, so no new work friendships. You don't go to bars/clubs etc. And as an aged person, you discover how much your age group is ignored. I even attend a large church that has dedicated, co-ed services and activities for teenagers, singles and couples aged 20-40, but absolutely nothing for people over 40. We are ignored. So, I have to discover new places to meet people as the "new me" so I can further develop me as a friend to them. That, again, all begins by me getting maximally comfortable with being "new single me." This book helps you understand that and how to move forward. There is a second book: a 31-day "program" of something to do on a daily basis, to help you get there. I recommend this book. You do have to be comfortable with profanity though...for some dumb reason, this author - a therapist - felt it necessary and in his comfort zone, to string all of the various profanities that we know, in the written text of the book. I found myself asking: "why did he write that...why was that edited out?" Oh well. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Raw, Relatable, and Surprisingly Comforting *by T***Y on October 16, 2025* This book felt like a conversation with someone who truly understands self-growth and independence. John Kim writes with honesty there’s no sugarcoating, just real talk about learning to love yourself, rediscover your identity, and enjoy being alone. I appreciated how it mixed humor with depth, making heavy topics feel approachable. Some sections hit me harder than expected, especially about self-worth and rebuilding confidence. It’s not just for people going through breakups it’s for anyone learning how to be okay on their own and build a life that feels whole. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Favorite reread *by B***A on August 6, 2026* If you’re even thinking about buying this book… just get it. If you’re single recently, single for too long, maybe thinking about being single… this is the book for you ## Frequently Bought Together - Single On Purpose: Prioritizing Self-Love and Personal Growth in Your Journey Through Life, Dating, and Relationships - The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About - 31 Days of Single on Purpose: Redefine Everything. 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