Snow Angels [DVD]

SNOW ANGELS captivates while ensnaring you in a very deeply distressing and excruciating morose story, which is thankfully imbued with superior performances by an amazing, magnificent cast (who I cannot imagine would have, even as professional actors, found it very easy to "shake off" after completing SNOW ANGELS!)The always engrossing Sam Rockwell plays Glenn, who we see early on is not merely emotionally tormented, but is actually struggling with serious mental illness. (For the Sam Rockwell "uninitiated", this is an actor who is barely recognizable as the same person from one film to the next, as he seems to "become" the character he is portraying...the mark of the very finest caliber actor). Annie, played by Kate Beckinsdale (who continues to enlighten as to just what a truly gifted actress she is in each role she takes on & this is certainly one of the boldest steps in her career) plays the single-mother to her estranged husband, Glenn & their 4-year old daughter.That is one story-line & that is the dour & cheerless one. The co-story line revolves around a high-schooler, Arthur, in the school's marching band, whose parents are also in the midst of separating, while simultaneously Arthur is falling for his first-love, Lila, played by a charming, vivacious young actress who brings her own sunlight to this ominous, woeful tale set against a dreary cold, grey, gloomy snowcapped small town background. The common link here is that Annie & Arthur work in a local Chinese Restaurant and Annie was Arthur's babysitter, in his formative years.Glenn is trying to rebuild his life and have a relationship with his young daughter, while at the same time, trying, unsuccessfully, to win back his estranged wife Annie, who has a restraining order against Glenn, doesn't want to see him, nor feels he can be trusted with his daughter. In almost every scene, we see Glenn, showing up hopeful, trying to be patient, gallant and kind, despite Annie's flying into rages that he continues showing up in her life, which, eventually, wears Glenn's efforts down, as each time he's becoming more spiritless, despondent and disengaged, yet also more threatening, culminating at a point where he completely dissembles. As things are unraveling even further for this family, we see the opposite effects taking place for Arthur with Lila, and ultimately with his parents, too, as they are seeming to be trying to patch things up between themselves, for both their own sakes & their child's. And, therein lies the juxtaposition of SNOW ANGELS...SNOW ANGELS is actually a very in-depth character study of the human psyche...in all its' frailities and strengths, the effects of which ripple throughout, and depending on which, can either bolster a family or tear it asunder. The unwavering underlying message, depicted by the parallel stories, is to show firsthand, how forgiveness heals, not only yourself, but those around you; your loved ones and how hanging on to resentments will have the exact opposite effect, potentially leading to an entire family's complete break, breakdown(s) and, ultimately, destruction & heartbreaking tragedy.Not a story for the faint of heart..it's actually quite grueling to watch & told with spartan unadornment. However, once you've begun, you can't help but be drawn in and feel empathy for these characters & are hoping, against hope that all will work out for everyone. SNOW ANGELS is a seminal film which should probably be shown in Psych courses. The director/screenwriter David Gordon Green lies everything bare & his choosing to tell this story with a parallel story within a story, is an ingenious concept, for without that, there would seemingly be no hope for the human condition, but he strives to show that indeed there is & we can either find it, or continuously shoot ourselves in our own foot, getting in our own way & the potential outcomes with whichever is the chosen path.

Really struggled with how many stars to give this film. It's extremely well-acted (5 stars), but is a scrupulously unvarnished portrayal of real human darkness and pain (not evil, an important distinction). And, for the most part, it's pretty hopeless, so minus at least part of a star - for me, anyway. Given the energy I'll need to bounce back, can't honestly say "I loved it". But that's totally subjective. I wanted to put the extra star back for being blatantly unafraid of showing extremely difficult human truth, but the destroyed state I'm in after watching it just won't let me - so maybe I should have waited a week or more to review, as other reviewers have also said.I found the film deeply compelling but inordinately difficult to watch. That may be in part because I have close personal experience with a very violent paranoid schizophrenic with religious delusions, so the part of Glenn (Sam Rockwell) probably hit way too close to home, especially as his mental state deteriorated toward the final climactic scenes. The only glimmer of hopefulness - very compellingly acted - was the quirky romance between a couple of misfit high school kids who found beauty and love in each other's differences. And the fact that an important character escaped into the snow (trying not to be a spoiler, but a different outcome would have really propelled me over the cliff of utter despair).Be sure you are ready and in the right state of mind for this film. It's very heavy, with no "easy" mainstreamed, focus-grouped, feel-good ending - well, just a momentary glimmer of one, but not enough to rescue you from the pit of existential pain you may find yourself in while the crushing weight of the whole movie is still hitting you. If you're in the mood for an extremely well-acted, unvarnished tale of dysfunction, agony, unbearable loss, mental illness & the role religion can play in abetting that, all with only a snow-kiss hint of any possible redemption, then go for it. But if you're already feeling down, this may be a high-quality, insanely honest movie to put on hold for a stronger, brighter moment in your life.PS - Major props to Kate Beckinsale for taking on the role of Annie. There is nothing "pretty little actress girl" about it, and this film was certainly never about box office. She showed some serious acting skill in this difficult and highly nuanced part. I like her even more than I did before, when I "only" deeply appreciated how enjoyable it was just to look at her :)

Kept waiting for an upturn, a break from the dour presentation perhaps by the actors. But it was not to be, the dive into the abyss of emotional patheos. Death of a child, attempted suicide, mental illness, extramarital affairs, betrayal of friendship, overweight, aging Mother who disdains caring for herself, disobedient child, low-level jobs, unemployment...there's more, but hardly worth going on. And Kate B. disappoints as the hapless women unable to break out of this dance. Don't watch it.

At first I thought, "what a depressing waste" - another movie where everyone is either miserable, hopeless, or both. I guess I wanted something lighter.Months passed and I still thought about some scenes in the film. Long after I forgot the title, I couldn't shake the images and feelings.Now I look forward to watching it again. If anything I wish it had gone into more depth.Without spoiling anything, I think Rockwell's character depicts that kind of desperate, joyless, religion - all form and no substance - that comes out of court-ordered conversions. It's the form of Christianity and not the substance, not the change of heart and rebirth in the spirit that comes with true conversions. The way some people have to attend several AA meetings a week, have to fill the emptiness, as though it's a chore.The film further illustrates the deep pain and dysfunction of a broken home. I thought Rockwell's brief and awkward visits with his daughter were spot on. His parents, especially the mother, also nailed the heartache of having their grown son move in with them, straining to hope for the best in a bleak situation.I'm not sure whether this is an endorsement or a warning.

Great acting - disturbing film

Snow angels is a dvd which has a tragic ending. Her husband is seperated from his wife cause of his alcohol problems. They have a child whom the grandmother babysits, as well the mother, sometimes the father takes the child who is 3 years of age or so, but one day the mother is ill with severe cold and the daughter want to go out, and the mother says,"No" but while mother falls asleep on couch child disappears out the patio doors and goes missing. A search party made up of the community, looks for her, and finally her body is found in frozen puddles of water in woods. They are broken hearted. then the wife starts a relationship with another man, cause she does not trust her husband and his drinking binges. The husband begs her to reconsider, but by the time she decides to stop the relationship with the other man, her husband gives up on life and in bitterness plans to take her life before his......