Day Bang: How To Casually Pick Up Girls During The Day

I've thought about not giving the book a review till I got at least 3 bangs from day game which would show the effectiveness of the advice that Roosh gives in "Day Bang." While getting the bang is the ultimate goal of day game, I've realized that the whole point of the book is to make the budding (or even veteran) players be more proficient in building a connection and comfort through conversation without silly routines, moves, or lines--which is what I've found to be the common day game advice given out there on the internet.The advice Roosh gives in Day Bang is helpful and practical. It is not until the last chapter that common mistakes from day game approaches by guys were discussed, but it was through the advice given that I began to see the flaws in my approaches. For example, one of my biggest mistakes is "going personal" right away by opening with a greeting, a personal question, or a compliment then not investing enough in a conversation by going for a number as soon as possible (when it's often unneccessary). What often happens next is that the girl says she has a boyfriend or just kept walking.The advice given is practical because it's simply doable. For the totally nervous person, Roosh makes you go through a mental exercise that you can do before your approaches. For people with difficulty generating conversation ideas and maintaining the ramble, there are lots of scenarios and examples given that are common where women are usually encountered...and yet, I felt that there's no need to memorize or duplicate the sample dialogues because of the doability of the advice. If that doesn't help, he suggests a simple talking exercise you can do at home.Critics might say that the advice given is so simple that any idiot could've figured it out eventually and that this is written for social retards. Wrong! Not all people grow up to be social butterflies. Also, there are many socially well-adjusted people out there who are led to believe false assumptions or myths about attracting the opposite sex. And finally, despite the actions we repeatedly do in our lives... how often do we stop and truly reflect on specific changes that we would like to do? Especially in attracting and having impromptu conversations with random women in a random situation? Day Bang facilitated such thinking and action for me.I'm the type of person who does well in intimate conversation **given the chance** in certain scenarios like parties or other social gatherings. I'm also not the type who likes loud clubs or bars. So at the outset, I have limited options for meeting women. And from my experiences, women usually have their emotional guards up in public. This is simply unacceptable and has been a cause of grief for me for a long time. Not anymore!This is why I think the "elderly opener" was brilliant. It was one of those things that I've done before but never realized its power. It makes the girl engage you without thinking that they're being hit on. I think of it now as my battering ram against the stupid female notion that they shouldn't be hit on any venue especially if they're "not in the mood to hook up." With the elderly opener, I now feel that my "intimate-conversational self" will have a way to potentially shine. So whenever I go out to day game, I'm now a "confused old man" who walks slow, needs constant clarificaton, rambles a lot because he read many articles, and complains about how hard it is to choose because he's had better choices during his travel adventures in Europe.I feel the same way about the other concepts like "dropping bait," "rambling," and GALNUC but you'll have to get the book to know what I mean.There are girls I approached, post-Day Bang reading, who still say they're in a relationship or kept on walking...but they're engaging me in conversation more. With some tweaks here and there and committed practice with day game, it's only a matter of *when* for me to bang them. I can feel it already, this is why I thought a Day Bang book review is due even with pending bangs from me.Thanks, Roosh!5 out of 5 stars, buy "Day Bang"...now.

One thing I learned about reading Day Bang is: don't be embarrassed that you're reading a book called Day Bang. To be sure, the goal of the book is spelled out in the title, but there's a lot more in there than that, even for a middle-aged guy like me.Being divorced and getting back into the dating market was much tougher than I thought it would be. Sure, I could get even multiple dates with women up to ten years younger than me, and everybody had fun, but they didn't go anywhere and ended with a fizzle. So I needed to rethink my strategies, and along with other sources around the internet, I found Roosh's books and website.Roosh is a very efficient writer; I wouldn't say that his phrasing is poetic by any means, but he certainly writes clearly and gets his concepts across. This is what you want in a book like this, and it helps that Roosh will often disclose personal anecdotes of both his failures and successes to emphasize a point. Nowhere in the book do you get the impression that he is cataloging his notches to feed his ego. I will say that as such, it's not an entertaining read, but it is a provocative, and in my case, something of an inspirational read.If you were to summarize the core concepts of Day Bang and other "Game" type writings, they're both obvious and yet groundbreaking. "Be confident", "be interesting", and "be charming" seem like no brainers, but for some reason "don't put her on a pedestal" is contrary to how modern men have been taught. There are plenty of books and websites out there that discuss these concepts in detail, but Day Bang differentiates itself by including plenty of practical guidance on making the approach and other areas of building attraction. Like where to sit in a coffee shop to maximize the chances that you'll be able to approach a woman, or the "elderly opener", a rambling way to break the ice in an innocuous manner.For older guys, Day Bang is more practical than Roosh's previous book, Bang, primarily because we're not going to go out to loud clubs or bars anymore to grind our pot bellies against twenty-somethings. Day Bang emphasizes the indirect approach, which is much more suited to meeting women during the day at the coffee shops or grocery stores that we're more likely to frequent.The best thing about Bang and Day Bang are how to reframe your thinking to not only improve your chances of successfully approaching women, but how to improve yourself. Ultimately, there are no magical words or gestures that will shake women loose from the girl tree and into your lap, but surprisingly the proper frame of mind that Day Bang advocates will make you seem more attractive to not only women, but to others in your every day life. Rejection will happen, but Day Bang will help you to learn to laugh it off and try, try again.

Day Bang by Roosh V is about one thing. Talking. Specifically about how men should talk to women they don't know in order to get to know them better. The book explains how to start talking to a woman, "opening", how to keep talking to a woman, "rambling", and how to end the conversation by getting details like the phone number, to be able to talk to her again later and befriend her, "closing". The book also covers how to talk to women in different locations such as the street or the grocery shop.This is the sole purpose of this book. There is nothing untoward or lewd whatsoever in the entire book.This book is applicable to any man looking to get to know a woman for any reason.This book has more in common with books like "The Fine Art of Small Talk" than with any other book by Roosh. If you are, like me, stumbling and falling down trying to talk to women, then I would recommend this book.

Excellent book covering everything (and I mean everything, there's a lot of detail here) you need to know about day game. Having previously applied night game during the day, this book helped me a lot on where I was going wrong, and made me realise the importance of rambling, where previously I'd placed most importance on humour. Now planning a trip east to make the most of what I've learnt.

Really good useful information

I've studied a lot on dating for men and this fills in the gaps on why day game is hard and what to do.Roosh explains how to approach and open and then close by getting a number.He is an exceptionally good writer and very funny. He uses metaphors really well so that you can picture his concepts. For example, the harmless elderly opener and elderly chat was explained in detail and very entertainingly.This is exactly what I need to fill in the gaps in my knowledge as I like to have a framework and didn't know how to open a conversation and then what to do to get a number and as I said, I've studied this area a lot when I was younger.

Eso es todo, esa es la lección. En el día no puedes retar o hacer mofa de las chicas, es más complejo hay que parecer despitado con cualquier cosa hasta lograr conversar y de ahí tratar de escalar. Esa es toda la lección. Considero que lo que allí se expone no funciona muy bien en países latinos, esta hecho con base en la forma de ser de las mujeres en la cultura anglosajona.