He Who Finds A Wife: A Man's Guide To Finding The Woman & Love He Desires Kindle Edition

The biggest problem I have with this book is it seems less about helping a man who's ready to find a wife, and it seems more about helping Stephan Labossiere build his brand.Here is the book's message, in 3 lines:- Don't chase women. Don't show desperation. Be confident and assertive as a man.- Heal from your past wounds. Acknowledge the hurt. Talk about it. Forgive.- Trust God. Submit to God. Surrender your searching for a wife, to God. When in doubt, Pray to God.There are Biblical quotes, as well as multiple invitations to join Mr. Labossiere's coaching practice, should you need help with the above.This book is not horrible. The author's text comes across conveying he's a likable person. For a man who truly doesn't have a clue, it probably has good common sense advice.There was one good nugget--women do like a spiritually grounded man. I liked that. It brought my view of this book from one star to two stars.But there is no real original thought or idea. There is no actual tool, technique, or road map provided in this book. There are no success stories. No interviewed men who were sincerely searching without success, had their "aha!" moment, then found the perfectly right woman for them and are happily married for years since. Nothing here you can't find in 8,000 other books. It's all sizzle, no steak.Also, the repeated and similar God references make the author seem like a televangelist, asking us to put our faith into investing in a seed or something.And then some of his views are just ignorant: "You shouldn't be having sex before you're married...most men view sex before marriage as a must, using the analogy of test driving a car before you purchase. [...] Ask the many married men who are dealing with a lack of sex in their marriage how that approach worked out for them." Why don't you ask the many people who waited until their wedding nights to lose their virginity, why they are now dealing with chronic infidelity issues.If you are a man who's sincerely desiring a good wife, a Proverbs 31 wife, this book will not help you.

I have not read the book yet. But the Author is very insightful . I have purchased other books from this author he is truly amazing. I will always purchase from his auhor . His writing is relatable to real life situations but he also gives you the spiritual aspect of how you can and will enhance your relationships and walk with Christ. He refers you to scripture and that is what i really like about his books. If you are thinking about purchasing any of his books in my opinion you wont be disappointed.

I chose the rating for this book to be 5 stars because I have been praying about how to pursue a wife and this book spoke and taught me how to pursue a wife. Its imperative to pursue God first and to find myself before pursuing a wife. In Matthew 6:33 it says "But first seek the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you."

I am a woman and I wanted to read this as so often women get all the guidance about being a great wife but never anything to a man. I thought this book was great and I agree 1000% that these are qualities women adore. I think the one think I've valued in past relationships is knowing that I'm on your mind so a good morning text is so exciting to receive. A call is even better because when you speak you command attention!

Stephan, has an amazing ability of impacting the hearts of men and women with his words. He has profound wisdom from the throne room of heaven. I am in love with this book. It's definitely not just for men but it's for women who want to gain insight on how and why men think the way they do. I read this book in 2 short days. It flows and the content is meaty. This book is a great guide for men and women. It shine perspective on the flesh, spirit and mind. You will laugh, think, reflect and make changes.Certified Professional Life Coach Lakeisha Dixon

Book is very informative and well thought out. I learned from reading this book and the best part it isnt some long drawn out book it gets right to the point. Single men of faith should read this book and apply it to dating.

What else can I say, or expect from a Great Author! Pragmatic, Frank &Gentle!! I feel as if I'm a bit nosy, though considering the book is for "Men":) But being A Huge Fan, of the Boaz book, I felt Mr.Stephan has by my opinion Done a Fantastic Job, Ministering to our Men, and I honestly Pray, that our Men will grasp hold of this book, with out judgement and really be Open, to addressing any, issues within themselves if any, and be led spiritually or personally to at least reading This very Anointed, and Gifted book!! Awesome Coach & Author...

I thought I wouldn't like the book because it is preachy. I would have liked the author to include his own personal experiences versus his clients. It make it impersonal and distant. I don't find the content to be original because they're similar books. I do like an author who has a message and stays on point. It's also a simple and quick read. It's not offensive at all and it maybe too nice.

Amazing book. Definitely suitable for anyone and addresses a lot of the issues that men don't address and haven't been encouraged to address. We'll done Stephan.

This book helps a lot if you have a problems with the girls.Very usefull advises from Stephan.

Great read